Wednesday, 23 December 2009
.:: Loss n Gain ::.
It was an unplanned meet up but had lunch with a friend yesterday. I was being treated to Swensen's. Nice food, cool ambience and lunching with a friend.What more do I want?.... except that the 'sharing session' isn't that great.... Bad news ... a failed relationship and my friend have to start picking up the broken pieces and start all over again.
I'm given the trust which I'm honoured that friends have in me... and this friend of mine... we gotto know each other 'indirectly' and its only been 2 years of friendship.....but it was only this year when the 'sharing session' got more intense....
It was not my friend's decision to end the relationship but because of intervention by 3rd parties who are blood related that led to this sad ending of what most of us friends thought that it was an ideal union of 2 hearts....
I find that each time I got close to some friends its always due to problem sharing sessions with me that our friendship deepens and evolved....
It seemed that tragic and sad stories strengthen my bond with my friends and how ironical that is.... One man's loss seems to be another man's gain...
