Saturday, 15 October 2005
.:: Death, Birth, Illness & Injury ::.
Yesterday visited Abg Man's wife at KKH together with Kak Haiza. She was conscious but not really in a state of her good mind.....maybe its the medicine....He told us that dia meracau.....She only knew about the loss of her son yesterday morning.....initially, she couldn't take it and was blaming the drs....I guess, its normal to pick someone to blame and its just like venting her anger and frustrations....She was still in the ICU as her blood pressure was still high and her oxygen level was quite low.....the drs came and spoke to Abg Man in front of us and his wife....They told him that due to the pregnancy, she got this sudden high blood pressure and its causing the internal organs to be topsy turvey.....and they are suspecting that her kidneys are failing!!!! They will monitor her further with more test to confirm and will even bring in the specialist on kidneys to assess her.....OMG!!!....and the drs were saying all these in front of us, the visitors and his wife?!!!! Where's their bloody work etiquette??? I thought all these are suppose to be confidential and not suppose to inform the patient until she's emotionally & physically ready???......HELLOOO!!!....she has just lost her baby for God's sake and now they are telling her that she might loose her KIDNEYS??!!.......
When my late mom in law was diagnosed with cancer and even she can't speak and understand English that well, the drs were compassionate enuf to talk to us in a seperate room to break the news! Duh...what happen to the Drs at KKH???? I noe, they are doing their job but to give 2 bad news in a day is something not right......
I'm really praying for Abg Man, I hope he'll be strong for his wife & family....Please Allah, do give him strength & courage to face all this....
After that visited, Diana as she's just given birth to a healthy baby boy....So happy for her & Norman....bila gak nya kitorang nya turn pulak eh? Hmmm....
Ilyas, my little devil wasn't improving on his nasty cough....in fact, I feel like it got worse, including the wheezing....kindof worried for him.....we are bring him to his dr again later.....*sigh*....I wonder when will he get over with his asthma.....I noe his condition is not so bad but still its asthma....and this little fellow, when he's sick, he don't even act sick.....still jumping around and running around and screaming around ....which in turns, aggreviate the asthma's condition....instead of getting better, it got worse!
Then last evening, Ciko called me....she wanted us to advise her son, As'safiy to go to the dr as he got a deep cut on his finger. He wanted to stop the bleeding, so guess what he did?.....He used masking tape as plaster!!! Preety smart, rite??? And now, that bloody 'plaster' is difficult to be removed as it was tightly bandaged around the wound...
Boys will always be boys....sometimes i wonder where have they left their brains???...
